Below is a before and after photo. The before photo is from Nov. 10, 2012 and I weighed 168 lbs. Ugh! It's embarrassing, but I tried to pick one of the worst photos. Unfortunately, I had a lot to choose from. ha
I had actually weighed as much as about 183 lbs. a couple years prior to that. AND, back in about 2005, had ballooned up to about 220 lbs. I do not have any photos from that time period. Thank God! ha
The 2nd photo is current from April 2016 and at a weight of 129.
weight has yo yo'd drastically over the course of my life. Gain 50 lbs.
Lose 50 lbs. Gain 30 lbs. Lose 30 lbs. Over and over and over. Sound
familiar? I was NEVER able to control my eating for any long period of
time and keep the weight off. I'd "diet"... sometimes drastically and
sometimes with diet pills....get the weight off...and go right back to
old habits and eventually gain the weight back.
Although I haven't done any drastic dieting or taken any diet pills for
at least 15 years, I've still had issues with food...as you may have observed from photograph 1 of the evidence I present to you today. :)
Okay...so now let's get on to how things have changed...for the better...
One day last June (2015) I was in the library and saw a book (in the section they have for sale) for
$2 I was interested in. It was the South Beach Diet book. I picked it
up and decided to buy it. I showed my husband and told him I was buying
it and jokingly said "This book could change our lives!" Little did I
know that it actually would be the inspiration that really did change my life.
It changed hubby's too. Since July 1, 2015 he's lost over 50 lbs. I've lost 35 lbs. (I started on July 1 at about 163.)
1, 2015 we started on Phase 1 of the diet. We followed it pretty closely. We
ate 3 meals a day plus 2 snacks. That was one thing that really helped
me stick with it. I didn't go too long without eating. I didn't have to
wait long till my next "feeding". ha That is important for me. I can't let myself get too hungry or I lose all control and reason. lol Five feedings at certain intervals throughout the day works best for me. I usually have 2 cups coffee about 8am, breakfast around 10-11am, lunch 1-1:30ish, snack 4-4:30pm, dinner 6pm, snack 9pm.
I may start a "What I'm Eating" page (or post on main blog) if anyone is interested. We're not always the best and most knowledgeable at our healthy food choices, but we've improved dramatically over how we used to eat. If I post my meals I'll just be honest and show what we really eat. I've discovered a lot of Trader Joe's quick and easy products we like and eat a lot and I'll share those too.
Anyway...back to the diet...
In the beginning, to get started, we began
looking for products that were low in carbs and sugar. We cut out
bread, white potatoes, and rice. We swapped out low fat/fat free for most high fat products, but we eat healthy fats such as olive oil, avocadoes, etc.
We followed along on this path through
Phase 1 and Phase 2 (for a few months).
did not feel deprived or hungry. We substituted unhealthy, high calorie
meals with healthier, lower calorie ones. We were losing weight and
feeling like we were really making better choices for our health and our
December we made a decision to no longer buy red meat, pork,
lunchmeats, etc. We began eating fish/salmon/tuna, turkey, chicken, and
some soy products as our meat source.
We currently still eat the 3 meals + 2 snacks and continue with the same eating habits as in early stages, but have added certain things back into our diets such as more fruits, low carb tortilla's, lower calorie bread products (english muffins, bagels) and a low carb loaf bread for me. Hubby eats a higher calorie loaf bread, but still healthy ingredients (since he has lost more weight and can use the extra calories). So we now allow ourselves some bread products, but try limit it to healthier choices. (No cream cheese danishes in da house. ha)
and I'll also say that we do not follow all the above 100% of the time.
We go out to eat on occasion. And if we feel like ordering a
cheeseburger and fries then we'll do that. We just only have those
splurges maybe 1-3 times per month and eat properly the rest of the
plan meals a week at a time. I tally up the calories as best I can and
try to stay within a certain amount....an amount that I feel comfortable
with, that allows me to have plenty of food at each meal. And I rarely
do without my snacks. It is important for me to not feel like I'm
depriving myself so that I can continue this way of eating for the rest
of my life. No more yo yoing. I have never stuck with an eating plan for
this long in my life. As I write this, we're
almost at the 10 month mark and it sure feels amazing! I say every day
how I can't believe we've done this and that it's not really hard at
all. It takes planning and sticking to the plan. I'm usually successful
at that. If I have a day where I go a bit overboard, then I just do it
right the next day. And I don't let that become a common occurrence.
are days when hubby and I joke that "ohhhhh we'd like some gooey
chocolate chip cookies" or other food that sounds good... and a year ago
hubby would have just gone into the kitchen and baked up a big batch
and we'd eat them with big old homemade milk shakes.
Bad! And we're not doing that any more.
sort of like at home is off limits for bad snacks, etc. If we go out
and want a dessert...sometimes we'll get one. But, as I say, we just
don't eat out all that often any more and so we choose to eat healthier
and stick with our plan 95% of the time.
we DO have those splurge times to look forward to and enjoy. So it's
not like we can't EVER indulge...we have just set a limit to it.
Control. I had to learn it. My portions were waaaaay out of control. My
husband has helped me a lot with this. Over time it's gotten easier to
gauge what an appropriate amount is. I try to weigh and measure as much
as I can to keep myself accountable.
Hate it. We had a treadmill, but never used it and sold it. We moved to
an apartment complex, that has a small workout room. We now use it
pretty much every day. Hubby actually walks 1 hr on the treadmill
probably 5-6 days a week. I do treadmill/bicycle/Pilates for about 50
min. usually 4-5 days per week. We've just made it a habit. Hubby has
encouraged me a LOT with this and I wouldn't do nearly as well in this
area without his support.
I am kind of letting my body dictate where it wants to be. I will not
deprive myself of food. If I don't lose any more that's fine. If I lose a
few more pounds eating the same healthy way then that's fine too. I
never thought I'd see the 130's again much less the 120's! I would have
been happy at 140 until I realized how just eating healthier, and
being consistent about it, could have such an affect on my body. Now my goal is to stay below the 130 mark...preferably in the 125 range. (*update: I was in the 124-125 range as of about June 2016, but became a bit lax during and after our July vacation, so am working toward that weight range again. As of Sept. 1 am at 129 again.)
just hope, that if anyone happens to read my page, that they'll find
some sort of encouragement. Believe me... I've struggled...time and time
again. If I can change the way I eat...you can too.
*To find posts related to this topic that I've added to my main Dreamz~n~Wishz blog: search the "labels" at the bottom of Home page for one entitled "A Healthier Me". Click on that label and it will bring up all my posts about my diet and healthier lifestyle such as what I'm eating, how I stick to my plan, etc.